The REAL Secret To Love, Passion, YOUR Dreams…

Posted by Dreamer On February - 27 - 2009 Comments

“Tollie’s Unbreakable: Love & Passion”

I’m going to tell you a little more about it in the next few days.

But first…

There’s a dis-empowering myth being perpetuated in the mainstream media.

The myth is we have created a world of excess, selfishness, and anger. We are now experiencing that energy in our weather, financial struggles, and ecological challenges.
We created a dark world that will financially fall, and we will now suffer the consequences.

Let’s face it, that is simply not entirely true.

The truth is that we are evolving as human beings faster than any other time in history. We are becoming conscious, and as we do, we can trust that we are moving forward and upward, that there is great abundance in the world, and that we are financially safe and will prosper.

I also want you to consider all the new “green” efforts to preserve and enrich our ecology – things we did not even think much about until just a few years ago.

It’s funny how the media forgets about those things.

I also encourage you to stop spending much time watching the news on TV or reading newspapers filled with negative stories. It simply does you no good and will only ultimately lead to victim-hood and poverty consciousness.

I understand, I was there, Unhappy, Broke, Lifeless. Then I found this life changing program, it was a new birth. I read emails everyday, and the darkness, and Hell so many are plagued with today. Are you ready to make a new life NOW! Then visit the “Hidden Secret” NOW!

It always comes down to a choice, sit back unhappy and say the familiar, “Yeah it’s a bunch of baloney!” Sure, stay un-happy. Or, Visit the “Hidden Secret” NOW! And find Passion. Oh yeah, for you negative thinkers, here is something you can not argue with. If you feel this program WILL change your life, However, your negative thoughts still STOP you from your Passion, The Program has a 100% Satisfaction Guarantee!!
Now Live your Life of Passion.. “Hidden Secret”

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A mother’s Loss Of Her Teenage Son To Suicide. I Will Do Better!

Posted by Dreamer On February - 27 - 2009 Comments

Thank you for your words of encouragement and support. Honestly, although the situation is terrible something Good will come out of this. It is crucial to be happy and loved. Everyday is your new reality, Your past only has the effect you allow it to. My past is beautiful. Your future, is exactly that your future. So because of this message below, Good will come. Tollie…

Right this moment I’m sitting waiting to board an early flight home. Sitting here reflecting on how drastically lives can be altered in just a single fleeing second in time. I opened my email to find a letter from a shattered Mom who lost her 16 yr old son to suicide. Her son who I have recently communicated with after his email sharing his personal hell. Apparently I could not help soon enough. As I read this broken Mothers email she sent after accessing his email account searching for answers since she never knew the pain he has been hiding. I was the first he trusted with his story.

Now I bear the blame from his family. The legality of the situation does not matter to me. Any actions taken by the family is only the result of pain and loss and finding a justification. Honestly, I would gladly accept any blame or resentment if this would cause any peace or acceptance by the family. I accept in my Journey when you take a stand and are seen you must accept these actions. In a situation like this it is hard to explain that blame is non existent. In our culture people are a very unforgiving group.

When events in our life are not as we wish them to be we place blame on others. Financial it’s a company, a boss, a recession, a president, a bank. Physical it’s our perceived limitations, lack of time, lack of money. Love it’s our looks, it’s our lack of money, it’s our spouse, it’s our job. The list expands.

As I was out on my date last night I shared some of this story. As I was watching the waves pound the rocks I looked over and she had a smile that lit up the darkened sky. I laughed and asked “what”? She replied, she has gone out with so many guys and has never been treated like a princess out of a fairy tale before. She always felt like a prize and the words being spoken were all part of a game even when they were the right ones she still felt like a girl. She said I feel like a princess with a fairy tale prince, you hear my dreams and you believe in me to accomplish all I wish in my life. You showed me love from a pure place with no agenda. I was flattered and as I said to her she must expect this treatment from this moment on, nothing less! We sat and talked till the decision was reached I must go now. She reminded me that this mothers pain, this lost life must be used for a passionate purpose of love. I can do more and I must. I have so much in the works and release dates we have developed. However, I have one book I feel needs to be released NOW!

So my plan is on Monday the book will be available and the profit from the sales will be donated to teen suicide prevention. This is the heart of a dreamer. I will weather the storms others try and place upon me, I will steer my course. I see the horizon I see the dream already unfolding. Love as a compass and with no one left to hide in the shadows of darkness my passion will be the fire of light! I made a decision and Im taking a stand!

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Teens A Lesson On Courage and How To Take a Fall and Dream

Posted by Dreamer On February - 26 - 2009 Comments

One afternoon, many years ago, I went to pick up my mother from work. I got there a little early so I parked the car by the curb, across the street from where she worked, and waited for her.

As I looked outside the car window to my right, there was a small park where I saw a little boy, around one and a half to two years old, running freely on the grass as his mother watched from a short distance. The boy had a big smile on his face as if he had just been set free from some sort of prison. The boy would then fall to the grass, get up, and without hesitation or without looking back at his mother, run as fast as he could, again, still with a smile on his face, as if nothing had happened.

At that moment, I thought to myself, “Why aren’t most adults this way?” Most adults, when they fall down (figuratively speaking), make a big deal out of it and don’t even make a second attempt. They would be so embarrassed that someone saw them fall that they would not try again. Or, because they fell, they would justify to themselves that they’re just not cut out for it. They would end up too afraid to attempt again for fear of failure.
However, with kids (especially at an early age), when they fall down, they don’t perceive their falling down as failure, but instead, they treat it as a learning experience (as just another result/outcome). They feel compelled to try and try again until they succeed. (The answer must be…they have not associated “falling down” with the word “failure” yet. Thus, they don’t know how to feel the state which accompanies failure. As a result, they are not dis-empowered in any way. Plus, they probably think to themselves that it’s perfectly okay to fall down, that it’s not wrong to do so. In other words, they give themselves permission to make mistakes, subconsciously. Thus, they remain empowered.)

While I was touched by the boy’s persistence, I was equally touched by the manner in which he ran. With each attempt, he looked so confident…so natural. No signs of fear, nervousness, or of being discouraged—as if he didn’t give a care about the world around him. His only aim was to run freely and to do it as effectively as he could. He was just being a child—just being himself—being completely in the moment. He was not looking for approval or was not worrying about whether someone was watching or not. He wasn’t concerned about being judged. He didn’t seem to be bothered by the fact that maybe someone would see him fall (as there were others in the park aside from him and his mother) and that it would be embarrassing if he did fall. No, all that mattered to him was to accomplish the task or activity at hand to the best of his ability. To run…and to feel the experience of running fully and freely.

I learned a lot from that observation and experience, and have successfully brought that lesson with me in my many pursuits in life. Since then, I’ve always believed that in each of us is a little child
with absolute courage. A child that has the ability to run freely (or express himself fully and freely)—without a care for anything external—without a care for what people would say if he/she experiences a fall.

I believe that that courageous part of us, that courageous child within us all, will always be with us for as long as we live. We only need to allow it to emerge more fully. We only need to once again connect with that child within us—and give that child permission to run freely, just like that boy in the park.

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Beautiful Letter From a Father Who Found Love and His Daughter

Posted by Dreamer On February - 23 - 2009 Comments

These are the type of letters I Love to receive and make me thankful for the opportunity to serve.

“Tollie,
I wanted to say THANK YOU!!! I was in the audience when you spoke about decisions being based upon the knowledge of being dead tomorrow. I have heard some great speakers, very well known speakers, I am not alone when I say the world will feel your heart soon. I really listened to what you said because there was a new passion behind your message. Most great speakers have a perfectly scripted memorized message, as you mentioned you speak off the cuff and how you feel, this was evident and powerful!

Without the long story lets just say I have not seen my daughter in over 12 years. I felt she was better off without me and after what I had done. I never thought I could ever face seeing her after my actions. Your words and your stories made me realized if I died tomorrow, could I die knowing I never tried? I traveled the next day all day, I had to see her scared, I had to see her. I had to say sorry, I just couldn’t go another day with the thought of dyeing and never seeing her.

I wish I could write my feelings better but know I’m all chocked up. She hugged me! She said she loves me and forgives me! Tollie, I have my Angel, I have my daughter!!! This weekend I get to do exactly as you said, Im going to pick her up and go out and at the end of the night, I’m going to dance with her! Thank you…A new Dreamer… Tom Rice.”

Tom,

Thank you so much. Also, thank you for making me tear up. I know for a fact living your life and basing decisions on the knowledge of knowing it was your last day makes a profound impact on you and others. You see a new reality, you feel things you never felt. Compassion and Love is a ever expanding concept. Your lust for living everyday to the fullest, making an impact, feeling completely happy, loved, and excited is beautiful!

I know for myself that if today was the end of the line here on earth, I’d be perfectly happy with all I have done and what I would be leaving for others to feel. Sure, I’ve messed up along the way, but, I learned and grew. Rather, than stop I kept going because even after receiving some letters and emails where I became the blame for something in their lives, I receive so many more like yours, so how could I stop?

I made a point of apologizing to anyone who felt I hurt them or let them down. I have tried to make amends for any of my wrong doings over my past. Sometimes I have been forgiven and sometimes I have not. The important thing is I continue on my journey, I dream bigger every day, I love myself, my life, seeing new places, touching lives, feeling true emotions. Those I hurt, I know I tried, I apologized and amazingly enough, most guys can’t even admit when they were wrong. I continued to support, love, and remember the amazing feelings and memories they brought into my life. I take those feelings, and artistically paint feelings for others to feel those moments in my life and feel that love. So If I died tomorrow, I’d be one happy buck-a-roo!

Know this, you can’t please everyone, you can’t be perfect, you can’t always say or do the right things. What you can do is always be there, you can always try, and you can always learn and continue on a journey and effect so many more along the way. The same is true in the opposite direction. You can stay in your comfort zone, you can try and please those in your comfort zone, you can say nothing, you can not be there because it is easier and safer than being present and running the risk of making a mistake. You can go either way, the decision is yours, for me it’s an amazing Journey as a Dreamer. For Tom, it was a massive leap of faith and trust in Love, oh yeah and in the end he got a daughter out of it!

Tom, share an extra dance for me, I’m so proud of you! The first step of your dance remember this, you took that journey. One step holding the hand of a Love you may have never found, a first step with a daughter who always dreamed of this dance hoping it would come. The first step of a dance, gazing upon the light lit face of your precious angel. The first step of a dance which begins a new journey for both of you and a beautiful Journey of Dreamers…

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Tollie Schmidt & Journey of a Dreamer Europe Tour

Posted by Dreamer On February - 22 - 2009 Comments

Details of this awesome Journey will be coming over the next few months. However, with questions asked I figured sharing our soft dates now is a good time. Journey of a Dreamer and myself will be coming to party overseas as the illusion crumbles before your eyes.

As of right now we are planning on being in Russia this August and then October Paris & Great Britain. Due to this amazing Journey and event Solid details will not be announced until after the July release. So for all you in Europe, ready or not, we will be coming and a new Dream and Passion will be felt!

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It Hurts To Bury It, So I Want To Tell You. Letter From a Depressed Suicidal Girl In Pain

Posted by Dreamer On February - 20 - 2009 Comments

Lately, I have received many, many, letters, emails, and comments. I opened this one this morning, and wanted to quickly reflect upon it. At the bottom of the post is a follow up from this same girl.

“I’m 21 yrs old, I feel like I’m 100! I had a child who died at birth when I was 15, I became addicted to crack not long after, I’ve overdosed 8 times, went to rehab left rehab relapsed multiple times, got clean, got engaged to another ex addict who relapsed with me tried to kill me is sitting in prison for the next three years. My mother was never there growing up My father did it all from A-Z and sacrificed his own Love life to keep us “Safe” now he’s old and miserable and I feel guilty cuz’ he put us before him! My mom is a crack addict prostitute who is in prison and gets out in 9 months…

My older brother thinks my dad is his dad but my mother always told us different, he now has a child of his own and he is an abuser towards his girlfriend cuz’ my mom being how she is my brother can and probably will never trust any woman! I feel bad cuz’ I know the kid in him he’s my brother, but i can’t be around for longer than 10 minutes cuz’ it kills me on how warped his head is now a days… My little brother was thee kid who I never would’ve thought in a million years would be in jail or trouble for anything he’s 18 years old and serving his 3rd yr in jail he got out for the summer got a girl pregnant went back and is too far away for me to visit! I’m giving up on my life not a suicide giving up but I’m emotionless heartless and I feel like it’s only the beginning of a huge fall! I look at myself and see nothing i hear people but never listen I see things but not in color anymore the sun shines but not like it use to!

Completely Overwhelmed, I have NO CLUE who I am! And not sure I ever will!”

I hear all the time from people who feel my life is a fairy tale. People who are around me and I try to help support their dreams although they won’t fully allow them selves to dream. I show them how all things are possible and reference my personal experiences to create a visual map. Then I hear the same tune, how it’s easy for me, not having to work at a “regular” job, traveling and meeting amazing people, creating my dreams into vehicles, which allow me financially to continue further with my Dreams.

The individuals who allows speak of doubt and fear do not phase my reality. In my Passion and purpose I accept the fact that I must completely put myself out there and when you do, you will take some hits.

Most people live in a rather secure environment. They stay close to their families, their familiar friends, their familiar community. This is a very safe and happy place, it brings comfort to know that your little mistakes will be forgiven because of the familiarity, the safety of your environment.

For a Dreamer you have a different path. You have amazing Love, although you are among strangers. You spread your wings and although your family and friends are miles away you always carry their Love with you. You fly with a purpose; your destination is your dreams and creation. You fly with grace, instilled with a Legacy by those who Love you.

This Love is important, because as a Dreamer you are a servant. You will be asked to be in situations, which you know nothing about, and you will give your best. Yes, people in those situations may feel you hurt rather than helped, you may hear hurtful words. You are a dreamer who was there with Pure Love. Remember the important fact, you were there. You tried; you loved, and as time passes this will be remembered.

You still continue to fly without the security of the familiar. You still soar in order to create, and dream, and you still Love. This is who you are; you make the decision, continue or go back to the familiar and the safety?

Here is the truth. Through my Journey so far I have taken my hits, listened to the criticism, and have allowed the words of others say I hurt rather than helped when asked to perform in situations I knew nothing about and all others said no. I could stop, turn around and wallow in self-pity, I could allow myself to be the victim and never put myself out there again because I will never be good enough. Instead, I take my truth, and I dream bigger. I learn from those situations in order to help more. I become proud of who I am today because in the end, when all those people talk about the “bad” I did in certain situations, how I wasn’t good enough when I was there I honestly smile. Because all those times, situations, events, “I WAS THERE”! I loved, I supported, I did the best I could at that time, I learned and grew.

I dream, I take flight, I create my reality. When so many take a small step out of their secure box, take a small hit or set back they quickly duck back into the box, except their reality, and receive comfort from their loved ones. Inside their box they can’t spread their wings, they can’t allow themselves into the unfamiliar experiencing feelings they have never felt before.

You are not your past; you are not your mistakes. All the past memories or reflections are controlled and created in your sub-conscious mind. You see events as you wish; you create experiences as you felt. If past experiences create a negative feeling, create you to feel a misery, then in return all you will bring into your true reality is the same? Close your eyes, dream about your perfect life, picture the ones who you love being around, feel the laughter, joy, and peace.

This is your reality; if a situation is painful then you must stay away from it. If you are miserable and unhappy, you will help NO ONE! You will only bring misery to those around you. You cannot control, change, and alter others by sure will. What you do control is your feelings and thoughts, and actions. As you create better feelings, thoughts, experiences, you will find that in your life that is what you will attract.

Once you are full of love, happiness, passion and peace, when you are in a situation, which was once difficult or affected you negatively, you will see the situation differently. You will see a new way to show love, support and help. You will receive a new response, because you changed!

“I have no clue who you are and probably never will, I read your message the other day and thought absolutely nothing of it because it didn’t mean anything coming from someone I don’t even know… Who doesn’t even know me! I have no clue as to why I went back to my inbox tonight, but I did and I scrolled down to your message… And I got it! I felt it! I understood it and it moved me, I feel at ease after simply reading it out loud to myself… I guess I’m saying Thank You, for whatever reason you picked me and whoever else out of a million to send this message to. I think it’s only right to let you know it helped me through today and I will sleep better cuz’ it’s put me at peace with my life TODAY!
Thankful…”

“Whatever it is you want, however you want to have it, no matter why you want to have it, you can have it faster if you can first be happy without it.

Sneaky, clever, foxy, wry -

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Letter From a 17yr Old Suicide Attempt Who Now Dreams and Became Great

Posted by Dreamer On February - 18 - 2009 Comments

Tollie, I hope you share my story with everyone, I want people to know what an amazing man you are!

My name is Sara from Florida. Two weeks ago my life changed for ever. On the night of January 30th Attempted suicide. I was in a personal HELL and felt no other options. I was using drugs, I was paying for them by having sex with random men for money. I wanted all the pain to go away!!!

I couldn’t tell my parents I mean how could I tell them their 17 yr old daughter was a prostitute! I swallowed as many pills as I could next thing I really remember is my parents crying and me in the Hospital.

I still couldn’t tell them the truth. I was on Myspace when I saw your page and watched your videos. What you’ve gone through and how you spoke of love and Dreams! I showed my mom and I still can’t believe she contacted you and that you drive over 3 hours that same day to visit me in the Hospital.

I still can feel the goosebumps I felt when you came bursting through the door. The whole room lit up! I felt nothing but Love and hope as you sat there and told your amazing story of Love and Dreams. Guess you driving long distance for a girl is not a new thing. I wish I could have met your Dream girl she sounds amazing!

You convinced me to tell my parents the whole truth and held my hand as I did. When my Dad hugged me and said I love you it’s ok, I finally felt true unconditional Love! I can’t thank you enough for this feeling!! I still have no idea how you walked into my life and my situation got me to tell my dark secrets and before you left had us ALL laughing as hard as we were!! Things are so much better.

I know Im not my past or my mistakes. I am a Dreamer and full of Love! Thank you!!!

Sara a Dreamer

This girl is amazing! She dissolved her illusions of who she was. Now the Dreamer is alive and her true self is set free to create a new day only to be magnified in the future!!!

So Sara, Thank you! And Dream Big!
Your story will inspire others who need hope!
Tollie… Only a Dreamer

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Do Not Believe In The Illusions You Are Not Flawed and You Are Loved

Posted by Dreamer On February - 14 - 2009 Comments

Here’s the thing. Admission into time and space requires a belief in limits: a belief that both time and space are real; that you can therefore have and have-not; that love can be lost or found; and that you are what your physical senses show you and no more.

Here’s the thing. Admission into time and space requires a belief in limits: a belief that both time and space are real; that you can therefore have and have-not; that love can be lost or found; and that you are what your physical senses show you and no more.

These illusions immediately lead you to believe that you are incomplete. Yet, far from indicating you are flawed, they reveal your brilliance by filling you with desire, igniting your emotions, fueling your passions, and catapulting you out into the world where journeys are begun, connections are made, and dreams come true… only to be replaced by new dreams as your divine sense of incompleteness persists.

This is by design. Feeling incomplete does not make you so. It’s how legends are born, giants are made, and history is written. It’s why you’re here. To ever so briefly escape your true identity as you live with an unquenchable thirst that will lead into adventures of grandeur, discovery, and a realization that love is all there is.

Your trusty accomplice,
Tollie…

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For All The Teenage Guys Your Girl Dating Pick-up Lines Are Sad

Posted by Dreamer On February - 12 - 2009 Comments

Im sure you all have seen this before, especially if you eat out or are ever around a bar….

One of my biggest pet peeves I guess you can say is disrespect. Disrespecting anyone, however, seeing guys disrespect women actually upsets me. Last night was a particular example where I finally got involved because I finally had it!

Were sitting at the restaurant eating, and the waitress was a young attractive early twenties girl. Sitting at the table next to us was a group of “Chester, Chester’s the Child Molesters” Say the least guys like that just are not even in my environment EVER! They were saying the crudest most obscene comments to this young waitress. Of course she is trying to make a tip so she is trying her best to play it off and laugh. This only made things escalate.

These three bottom feeders, started to just be nasty, on top of already being rather disgusting. I was getting upset at this time because my friend was getting upset she doesn’t want to hear this crap, noe should she. I see guys like this all the time especially if they are in a group together. Maybe this is why I have always had a hard time going out with certain groups of guys because I can’t just turn a cheek to their rude and down right disrespect. I have seen guys and their various forms and attempts to ask their server or bartender out on a date. Yet, they play this I am MAN tough as nails, go home hide under the sheets and watch tel la tubbies lie!

Sorry, side track, my add kicked in for a second, sorry. Back to the three Chester’s, now Chester number one had a wedding ring on. Personally I feel if your married or in any kind of “REAL” relationship you would have nothing to do with this kind of behavior. I finally got up when they were asking to meet up with this waitress after work and she said no and Chester number two grabbed her. Im not going to go into the details but I kind of lost my control for a minute. NO ONE deserves, nor asks to be treated like this, NO ONE!!

It just amazes me the same crappy, pick-up lines I hear from guys all the time. No, offense but to be blunt, they suck! Be original, show some wit, show some thought being put into your sincere hope that you will have the HONOR in taking this person out. I feel if you use these crappy lines same, tired, worn out, lines to “pickup chicks” then Im afraid you may only be a few years from sitting in a booth along with Chester#1 and Chester#2. So in an attempt to try and give you something useful out of this, let me give you one idea, if you are trying to ask for a date with a waitress.

Be extremely polite, hopefully your funny because if your not this is not the idea for you. Make jokes, just talk and be friendly. Ask her opinion of what you should order, have her point out a lot of stuff on the menu. Finally just say, “You know what, I don’t want to keep you hear I trust you they all sound great, just surprise me.” When your meal comes say how impressed you are with it, and thank her. Towards the end of the meal just ask if they have a take out menu where you can call and place an order. When she brings back the menu jokingly say, “I really hope whoever answers the phone, has the patience you do and can help me make a decision.” She will joke back some and then say, “Actually, just in case I run into issues how about I get your number and call you, in fact how about you just let me take you out this weekend, Ill choose the restaurant and you decide the meals?” See what happens, yeah there is a little more thought involved and thinking on your feet. However, any freakin “Chester, Chester the child Molester, can say, “Now baby you know you want to let a real man how to show you a good time…”

In time for Valentines Day. Be honest and sincere, also never apologize for your feelings. Remember if you Died tomorrow, did you say and do everything “Today” that you want to make sure the person you love knows? If your in Love, True Love, say it because your already in the greatest dream you can imagine…

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Happy Valentines Day Yeah I know Im Just The Romantic Kind Teen Love Advice

Posted by Dreamer On February - 10 - 2009 Comments

I hope some of the guys read this. With Valentines Day around the corner it seems for the majority of the guys I talk to it is the only 1 day they may lower their false idea of a “tuff guy”. Take the time to really look into the eyes of the one they Love and hopefully feel a tremble as they hold her hand because they realize how lucky they are!

Yes, Im told a lot Im a big romantic, I am very proud of this, it is so important, everyday to make sure everyone close to you knows how special they are. It is something I strive to do more every day. Love it’s worth it all, and so in Honor of Valentines day, here you go… Hope you like it!
Tollie…

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Love is friendship set on fire? for others ?Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it? No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life.Love can occur between two or more individuals.Love should be experienced and not just felt.

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Teens Still Fat Anorexic or Depressed Ready To Change and Envision Your Dreams

Posted by Dreamer On February - 8 - 2009 Comments

“Now and then, it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy.” – Guillaume Apollinaire

I’m about to tell you something very important. Here it is: If you want to lose weight because you think you’ll be happy when you do, fugitaboutit! Beware of any “I’ll be happy when . . .” thoughts. If you’re not happy at your current weight, you won’t be happy at your ideal weight either. Although getting thin cannot make you happy, getting happy can make you thin. Take the fast road to your desired weight (and anything else you desire) by getting happy. When you get happy first, everything you desire will flow to you. When you get happy first, the weight will come off as a lovely byproduct.

Whatever you’re feeling (vibrating) is your point of attraction. The Universe responds and matches your vibration every time. Therefore, if you’re unhappy, you’ll attract circumstances that match your unhappy vibe. If you’re happy, you’re in vibrational alignment with Source and you will naturally attract circumstances that match your happy vibe. Let happiness be your goal and everything you desire will fall easily into place for you. So ask yourself: How can I feel happy under these conditions? How can I feel happy right here right now? How can I feel happy even at my current weight?

Think I’m nuts? I know for a fact this works. In fact not just through my past but more recently in the last few months. I gained a lot of weight, was unhappy (again) with my weight, body, looks, and on and on and on… Then I let it go and focused on what drove me, what made me happy what caused me to lose sleep because I was so pumped and my Dreams and creative process became my WORLD! I have never felt so good, alive, passionate. Why do people want to be around me and love when im with them? Because I am completely happy with myself, Im proud of who I am, I love how I look. I dropped 40 pounds in just over 2 months, TELL ME IT CANT BE DONE, and politely I will look back at you and nicely say, “LIAR..” This is life! This is Dreaming! Gotta love it!!

Can a few minutes of hearty laughter burn calories? Yes, and the more you laugh, the more you burn, say scientists at Stanford and Vanderbilt. Researchers showed clips of funny movies and TV shows to volunteers hooked up to a heart rate monitor and a device that measures the number of calories burned. The results indicated that a good belly laugh increases heart rate, burns calories and is the cardiovascular equivalent of rowing. When you laugh, you’re relaxed, you’re breathing and you’re open to Well-Being. Chuckle for 15 minutes a day, they say, and you could drop up to four pounds in a year. Laugh and grow thin.

Recognize that your happiness is not dependent on your weight. Decide to FEEL GOOD even before you lose the weight and you’ll lose the weight faster and you’ll feel joy in the journey. Make it your primary job to feel good and, from this happy state, you become a vibrational match to all things you desire. I’m convinced that when you’re happy as a lark you can eat anything you want with impunity.

Being happy and feeling good is a high vibration, which allows the Universe to present you with everything you desire. So get happy first. Then you will achieve your desired weight AND live a rich, full life. Get happy first by thinking happy thoughts. Your thoughts created the body you now have. Your thoughts can create the body you would like to have.

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Teen Cheating Lover Sex Lies & Love Forgiven Video

Posted by Dreamer On February - 6 - 2009 Comments

From Tollie Schmidt’s “OnlyaDreamer152″ YouTube Video Channel: The feeling of the one you love with all your heart with someone else. What did you do wrong? What could you have done different? Why did they Cheat on you? How could they do this to you? Sex, Love, Passion, Teens, Emotions.

You can rest assured, that those who have hurt you had absolutely no idea of what they were doing and what was really going on. It never occurred to them that you’d become even more magnificent. That they’d be invoking your sympathy, adding to your compassion, and increasing your “sparkles.” And it will still be eons before they can grasp that you actually welcomed them into your life and played their little games for some of these very reasons.

Teen Love: TollieSchmidt.com

“If you Died Tomorrow, What decision or feelings really matter? What will you leave? Love, Hate?”

Act with faith, Tollie. Prepare the way for your inevitable success. To the degree you can, behave as if your dreams have already come true, as if you already owned a Love, as if later today you were going to Be on Oprah. And you shall see the power you wield as the floodgates begin to tremble, the elements begin to conspire, people in your life begin to change, insights are summoned, comprehensions soar, and clarity is born.
Not to mention fierce, wild animals laying down when you pass by – Tollie…

Real love equals forgiveness, Real Love is pure Passion, time to close the door, forgive, and show your Love without hatred. It’s Time to Dream…Tollie Schmidt, who has lost over 300 pounds is the founder of “Tollie’s Out Of The Darkness Project.” Tollie’s Passion is to bring truth and real solutions, hopes, dreams, and love to Teens struggling with eating disorders; Image issues. Anorexia, Bulimia, Obesity, Depression, Tollie WILL help.

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Love Lost and The Stranger I See A Poem About Love and Passion

Posted by Dreamer On February - 5 - 2009 Comments

She was getting engaged.

And all I could do was stand by and applaud along with all.
I didn’t dare open my mouth for fear of saying something stupid, something like “I LOVE YOU”.

I remembered the other day when she had come to me with red eyes. Her “BEST FRIEND” was going away. It had never mattered to me that her best friend was a guy. I thought I was above such things. But her tears awoke the sin of jealousy in my heart. Fighting it I had consoled her and given her chocolates to eat. She proceeded to rest her head in the crook of my arm. And promptly fell asleep. I chuckled at her baby-like innocence. But now, as I applauded, I felt something stabbing at my heart.

She was getting married. I saw her come down the stairs decked out in her bridal finery. Never had I seen her looking this pretty. I saw her taking the seven rounds around the sacred fire with the man I had come to hate, holding his hands. I saw exchanging garlands with him.

She was a total stranger to me now.

I was standing near the car when they both came over to me. I wondered what they wanted. I wondered how to say Farewell to the Departed.

Nevertheless, as my Daughter and Son-in-law touched my feet, I blessed them. She was openly crying. I told them not to worry. That I’ll always be here.

She responded by hugging me.

And I could not stop the tears anymore.