Right Now You Can Have All Your Dreams Come True And Change The World

Tonight, on my website www.TollieSchmidt.com we are releasing my FREE book titled “UNBREAKABLE”. This will be a FREE release for only one week. Here is a small Excerpt from my last chapter titled “Dream”. Please leave your comments let me know what you think. It’s time to Dream…

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I believe in order to fully dream you must also serve. Part of the reason you never obtain all thet you deserve is you do not give with all your heart. There may be one key objection or many.

But you must identify the beliefs that are stopping you, so that they can be erased and replaced. But only do this if you are interested in growing, changing and being MORE!

Some common objections might be, “I’m already on a tight financial budget, and if I give I’ll be taking away from my family.” “People should help themselves, I did it all myself, so should they.” “People in this country need help, why should I help people in other countries?” “It’s the government’s responsibility to help the poor.” “No one ever lifted a finger to help me.” “When I’m rich I’ll give.” “Let some rich person or company help those people.” Looking at “why” you don’t give or serve will allow you to clear these negatives, and grow your life in abundance and personal development.

Step one: Know what you don’t want. I don’t want to live a vacuous life. I don’t want to be scared of helping people. I don’t want to be selfish, prejudiced, etc. Write them down.

Step two: Choose what you do want. Declare what you want, declare your intention on how you see your life of giving and serving and then put your attention on it. Take your belief and reverse it. For example, “I have no skills to help.” Reverse it to say, “I have more than enough skills to help the less fortunate and they will benefit greatly from my assistance.” “I have so much money that I can give, one million dollars each year to the charities I love.” “I have so much love, caring, skills, compassion, etc. to give and people are seeking me out to serve.” “I am a valuable asset to the world community and whenever I choose and the spirit moves me to service, I will be of value!” This clears all your negative self-limiting beliefs.

Step three: Feel the emotion of what you want. If you want to minister to sick children, feel all the emotions that you would have while in service to them—joy, happiness, hope, friendship, and strength. Feel it as though you are there with one of those children as they hold onto you, smile at you and call your name. Allow the emotion to well up inside of you. Allow joyous, happy tears to flow. Allow yourself to feel the change you are affecting in this child’s life.

Step four: I would even take this one step further. What I’m about to say may really push someone’s buttons. This next statement is an exercise in pushing you way out of your comfort zone, making you really confront some issues. Are you ready? Okay. Here it is! Whatever group of people you have a negative on, regardless of the reason, regardless of whether you perceive it to be valid or not, this is the group of people I want you to help. If you have a negative “hot button” on a certain group of people, because of religious affiliations, color, race, or you simply do not like their music or the food they eat, that is the group of people you should find a way to give to and serve. Though you are helping them, which they will certainly benefit from, you will be “freeing” yourself and experiencing more joy, more happiness, and more rewards than you can imagine. I know it is a big step. I am asking much. Some of you are tensing up right now, starting to sweat, getting angry at those people you are visualizing and me! That’s okay. Let it settle in. Think about it, pray about it, meditate on it, fiddle, squirm, be uncomfortable, rant and rave, yell, get angry at me, but work it out and then go to work. Trust me, it will change your life! Are you ready for something bigger and better than you have now? If so, then step up to the plate and take action!

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Step five: The next step is to love unconditionally. You might say, “Well, Tollie, that’s easy!” But I’m not just talking about loving your husband, wife or your children unconditionally, but your world family. Your neighbors, people with different religions, colors, ethnicities, and from different cultures and ideologies. Listen, it’s really not that easy. Even with your own family if, anywhere along the line, you have negative thoughts about certain people, hold grudges, encourage or promote prejudices, verbally or figuratively, condemn or denounce a person or group, then you do not love unconditionally and purely and therefore are holding yourself back. These thoughts and beliefs are incongruent, creating static, interference and chaos in the universe. Things must be in balance and resonate smoothly to produce goodness. In other words, you can’t be a minister and cavort with prostitutes. Maybe you remember the story of Jimmy Swagart? This doesn’t work and the universe will not accept it, so it dismantles it.

This is a process that we all must work on each day. A journey of replacing old, outdated, unwanted, broken down aberrant beliefs that were thrust on us somewhere along the line, but does not serve us. It does not serve humanity. Beliefs like… southerners are all slow and stupid, Yankees are con-artists and in the mob, Muslims are evil and terrorists, all blacks are lazy, the Ku Klux Klan (KKK) represents white America and all whites are racist, Hispanics are all in gangs, the rich are all corrupt, the poor are all thieves, and salesmen are all scam artists. I am sure there are countless other ones. The thoughts, feelings, and slanders are pervasive. No group or person has a monopoly on negative thought and behavior.

Pick any race, creed, color, religion, country, ideology, or age group of people and I guarantee you’ve heard, said or done something negative or wrong regarding them. It’s true and you know it. Unfortunately, it is part of being human.

Make a list of some you have heard or been taught and every time you hear another one write it down. As soon as you say them or write them down, don’t they just seem absurd? Now crumple them up and put a match to them. Burn them up—destroy them before they destroy you! Confronting this will help you to clear these negatives from your mind, heart and soul. How can you truly give, freely give, if part of you is living in a very dark, dangerous, insidiously sick place? Stop and assess your feelings and thoughts. Identify problem areas. Erase outdated, irrelevant and erroneous information. Replace it with the truth, with love. Be able to forgive those around you for past mistakes. Forgive a group of people for the wrongs you perceive that they have done.

Forgive the society you hold a grudge about. Forgive the country you believe was wrong in their treatment of another country. Forgive the social prejudices, the wars, and more.

Next forgive yourself for the wrongs you have done to others, both the intentional and unintentional ones. Yes, you have wronged many people directly and indirectly. Maybe you can’t see it, because you think your position is correct or justified, but indeed you have violated many people in your lifetime and the negative thoughts and beliefs you